Tuesday, November 22, 2011

ACCEPT or EXCEPT Gays & Lesbians & Those who are Different

ACCEPTANCE
Some people are confused today about what bullying is. BULLYING can be as simple as not accepting someone, or excluding them from your little group, or making a verbal comment about their choice of lifestyle, moral or religious beliefs.

I will tell you I am a Christian, but I love and accept all people of various religions, race, creed, and sexual orientation. I may not agree with all their views, but I respect and love them. The only people we can change is us.

The Bible tells us in Mathew 7:5 that we are hypocrites when we are looking at the speck in someone else’s eye, without first removing the PLANK in our own.

My daughter has chosen to live in a lesbian relationship. Do I agree with her decision, not fully, but I do accept her decision and love her no matter what.

That’s how God is, he loves us so much that he gave each of us a free will and choice.

So as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord, by loving and accepting all people, of all walks of life, and be the CHANGE that others need to see.

I’m an educator in the public schools as well. Acceptance and Differences are a couple of my favorite topics of discussion. With smaller children we use four very different looking puppets to display how different they are, but also to point out that underneath, just like us they are exactly the same—they’re puppets. For older children we play a dollar game. Each of seven kids are given various bills and coins that total a dollar. They all look very different, but they all equal the same, and have the same value just like us!

We are all different, yet very much the same.

We all want to feel accepted, valued and loved for who we are, not for how we look or the choices we make.

Matt’s Safe School Law just passed in Michigan. They finally accepted the law Kevin Epling and his wife Tammy have been working on for years in regard to their son Matt who committed suicide in relation to bullying. However, when the bill past, our legislature put a twist on that bill, that states anyone can still bully for moral or religious views. This is something that we as educators SHOULD NOT accept!

I hope you will stand with us and be the change that others need to see. Not only do we present workshops in schools, work places, and communities, but our goal is to leave each community better than when we came, and equipped with the tools they need to be the change. Safer Schools. Safer Families. Safer Communities.

Contact us today! I would love to speak with you about bringing our program to your community!

Lisa Freeman, CEO Abuse Bites
Healing Projects Specialist, Bully Police USA
Award Winning Author & Speaker
Certified Pet Therapist & Dog Trainer

Tuesday, November 8, 2011

Proposed bullying law could actually protect bullies - WNEM TV 5

Proposed bullying law could actually protect bullies - WNEM TV 5

SAGINAW, MI (WNEM/AP) -

Proposed anti-bullying legislation could be a license to bully.

The Michigan Senate version of the bill might justify bullying based on religious or moral beliefs.

"I believe that nobody should be allowed to bully," said Lisa Freeman.

Lisa Freeman runs an anti-bullying workshop with her son Jeremiah.

"It goes against everything we're pretty much trying to teach."

The bill is called Matt's Safe School Law. It is named for Matt Epling, a teen who committed suicide after he was bullied. The law would require schools to draft anti-bullying policies, but supporters are now worried it could protect bullies.

A spokesman for the Republican House Speaker said Monday the clause doesn't have support, and it will be removed in a House version of the legislation.

Copyright 2011 WNEM. All rights reserved. The Associated Press contributed to this report



Contact Lisa Freeman @ 989-729-2124 via email @ abusebites@gmail.com or online via website @ http://www.abusebites.com

Monday, November 7, 2011

Help Kids Stop Bullying

160,000 kids miss school every day for fear of bullying
1 teen dies every 1/2 hour in the USA from bullying/bullycide

That's why AbuseBites.com CEO Lisa Freeman offers educational workshops to raise awareness, and teach safety, prevention, and healing methods to stop bullying, abuse and violence. Her entire family was bullied in some form, one son nearly bullied to death.

By offering their real life stories of survival along with statistics, and some fun, interactive games, kids, teens, and even adults learn at their level how to defeat the bully without violence, work together as a community, and have a great time doing it!

We don't just put a band-aid on bullying we give kids, parents, educators and everyone everything they need to bring about safer schools, safer kids, and safer families!

Contact Lisa Freeman today @ 989-729-2124 or email @ abusebites@gmail.com